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The Power of Showing Up for Youth in Crisis: Meet Xavier

The Power of Showing Up for Youth in Crisis: Meet Xavier

When Xavier first arrived at LSF Miami Bridge’s Homestead campus, he didn’t say much.

He sat on the bench out front, taking in the unfamiliar place around him and trying to make sense of how he ended up there. Originally from Miami, Xavier found himself in unfamiliar territory when he arrived at the Miami Bridge Homestead campus with two of his younger brothers.

Xavier and his siblings had been living in unstable conditions, sometimes left alone for weeks at a time while their mother was absent. “You’re supposed to be our mom,” he shared, describing how he felt about his mother. “We didn’t have money for food. We were facing eviction because she wouldn’t show up for inspections.”

When the Florida Department of Children and Families intervened, the boys were offered placement at either His House or Miami Bridge. They chose the Bridge, not only because it felt safer, but because it meant they could stay together.

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“I’m not really from Homestead,” he said. “It was weird being here. The longer you’re here, the more relationships you build. But at first, I was nervous. I wasn’t used to being in a room with a lot of people.”

What followed was more than just shelter. It was structure and support. The brothers remained together, something incredibly important to Xavier. They received counseling and a soft place to fall.

Xavier’s counselor, Kimberly, remembers those early days well. “He was one of my first patients when I started at Miami Bridge,” she said. “The neglect and abandonment they endured was so severe, but Xavier pushed every day not to let those circumstances define him. He’s always been respectful, goal-oriented and insightful from day one.”

“I ended up staying a year and a month,” Xavier said. “It was hard to make friends at first, but people talked to me and tried to get to know me. The staff were always there for me. Sometimes I’d stay up late just talking to them about life.” In that time, something surprising happened. Slowly, Xavier started to open up.

Xavier found his rhythm. He kept showing up and pushing through. He passed his classes. Made friends. Built trust. “They make you do your schoolwork,” he laughed. “If I was still at that place before, I never would’ve gone to school. I wouldn’t be graduating. I’d probably be homeless.”

That thought haunts him still. “It scared me, not having a roof over your head. Sleeping under a bridge. I didn’t want that.”

 

Now 18, Xavier has aged out of the program and moved into an independent living home. The transition wasn’t easy. “I almost cried when the car came to pick me up,” he said. “I had people taking care of me at the Bridge. I didn’t know what would happen next.”

But today, Xavier is thriving. He’s on track to graduate from South Dade Senior High and has dreams of attending Miami Dade College. He’s even thinking about becoming a janitor, combining his love of cleaning with a steady job that helps him stay in the program. A realistic goal for a young man who has always been firmly rooted in reality, no matter what it has held for him.

“I still worry about where I’ll end up in life,” he said. “But I know Bridge gave me the support I needed. If you’re trying to reach a goal or achieve something, they’ll help you. They give you love.”

That impact extends beyond Xavier. His younger brothers are still at Miami Bridge, and he visits them regularly. “They’re in good hands,” he said. “The staff are really good people. If we didn’t have the Bridge, we wouldn’t have had the same relationships or resources.”

Xavier is a soft-spoken kid, but his journey speaks volumes. Xavier could’ve chosen a different path. After everything he has been through, no one would’ve blamed him for putting up walls or acting out. He could’ve been the kid with a chip on his shoulder, hardened by the reality of living in a shelter, but that’s not who he is. From the beginning, Xavier has stayed true to himself — quiet, kind and deeply loyal to his family.

As Kimberly put it, “We’ve watched Xavier conquer his fears. Now we get to see him grow. That’s not something we always get to witness in this work, but it’s what reminds us why we do it.”

What made the difference was having a safe place and people who cared. Miami Bridge gave him the space and support to grow, without judgment. And because of that, he’s walking into adulthood not angry, but grounded and still full of heart.